Love-Who Loves You?

What do you exactly mean when you say someone,” I love you”? When do you see yourself rising in love and when do you encounter that rise and fall yourself? And last but not the least what do you mean by love?

The answer to all these questions is that you should know yourself. The depth of your selfless love for yourself has been curtained by ‘someone you love’ with a mistaken belief. However, when you love someone, you actually look for the comfort and calmness. When you get this, you feel the lover inside that someone and when you do not get this, you feel the lover inside you. I am very sure that most of you would find it vague and neglect it in your busy practical thoughts. But this is how you are loved, if not by someone, then by yourself. This may be one of the definitions of loneliness.

I am not talking about loneliness. I am talking about the companion of loneliness. In difficult times like these, you have to learn to respect yourself. Bind yourself emotively to the hope supporting that love. Just try to get away from pity, pathos, longevities, tears and loss of self esteem.

Biggest fear which arises in this case is insecurity which is the cause of all the miseries and sufferings. So never feel insecure about your satisfactions and motives. Knowingly or unknowingly, insecurities have created agonies, ecstasies, jealousies, hatred and love to this common phenomenon and try to become signs of true love. Just stop asking one question who is a true lover. Because once you go deep, you will never find the truth, but what you would find is the exaltation in your loneliness.

So in a very subtle definition, love is color, which is when used on canvass, becomes colorful and when poured on carelessly becomes a ‘Daag’ which means spots.

If you still have not got the answer who loves you, you do not have to worry because, he is there, up above, to love you.